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"For the Love of Sex"
Got your attention? I recently attended the Taboo Sex Show in Vancouver where we displayed our relationship game Syncrohearts. Call me naive, but I was a bit shocked with the overwhelming amount of XXX stuff and the lack of "love stuff". I felt compelled to write this article on sex. I guess you could say that I had an urge that just needed to be satisfied.
It seems that wherever we look, we are exposed to more and more sex and why; because sex sells. Marketing experts know that sexy advertising is the best way to get our attention for their products. It is great that we have such a keen interest in sex. Unfortunately an explosion in pornography and XXX stuff is overshadowing the intimate part of sex. For some people, sex has become merely mechanical, with too much emphasis on the physical and not enough on the sensual.
The secret to great sex is to create more intimacy, which naturally makes sex more sensual and satisfying. This starts with good communication, more compassion, sharing loving thoughts and words, massaging, kissing and hugging and then you can get naked. Perhaps it is our busy lifestyles that have led to a lack of intimacy. Not only is there less intimacy, but there is also less sex.
Research shows that on average we are "doing it" far less often then we were 5-10 years ago. Is it just because we are too busy or too tired? Maybe we are looking for more than just a physical experience. Perhaps we desire something more sensual and all the XXX stuff just doesn't provide it. Sex is an important part of a healthy and loving relationship. So for the love of sex, try to focus more time and energy on creating more intimacy. Guaranteed someone will get lucky!
Bobby of Syncrohearts
Bobby O'Neal helps manage a community forest in Mission, BC. He is also an author and creator of SYNCROHEARTS: The new relationship game you love to play and play to love created for all couples to improve their love for each other and strengthen their relationship. SYNCROHEARTS and Bobby were seen October 15th 2007 on CBC's Dragons Den and were voted by all viewers as the winner of that episode. Bobby has written many articles on self improvement, love and relationships. Visit www.syncrohearts.com for details about this meditation-inspired game and more articles. You may also contact Bobby directly at: info@syncrohearts.com
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