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"Men want to become better lovers"
This article is directed towards women because we need your help. Yes, I admit it, on behalf of the boys club; we are stopping to ask you for directions. We know in our hearts that you, the women in our lives, are the masters of love and we are your students. It is time that we observe, listen and adopt the female approach to love. Please be patient with us, because like an old dog, we might not be that easy to train. Treats will make it easier, but save the sexual treats until we really learn to become a good boy. Otherwise, we will always be at your heel.
Since developing my relationship game Syncrohearts, I have come to realize that men want to become better lovers. I feel I am speaking on behalf of the average guy when I admit this truth. I am sure there are already many male super-lovers out there, just ask them, they will tell you. For the rest of us, we want to be more passionate, caring, loving, and better listeners. Notice I did not say better communicators, because as you know, we have been voicing our opinions for years. Thank goodness, you knew better than to listen to everything we said.
We are far more complicated than the "male labels" we have been given. It is not just a matter of feed us, feel us and well you know the other "f" need. Men have been called stubborn, simple, barbaric, selfish, uncaring, untruthful, etc. I could go on, but I am limited to the number of words in this article. Some guys might wear these male labels with pride, but most of us want to earn your respect back. We want to become better lovers and you need us to master these skills. Just look at the mess our male dominated relationships; families, governments, corporations and environments are in. We need to embrace more love in our decisions and actions in all areas of our lives.
We have an excuse though and it has served us well up until now. Most of us were not taught how to embrace love and express our softer sides. Our hard exteriors have sheltered us from exposing our true feeling nature. We have been more comfortable at exposing the harder stuff. I know, I know some guys have taken this too literally and they are now serving 2-3 years for their public display of the male hardness. Most men were raised to be the conquerors, winners, and warriors. Combine this mentality with our natural competitive instincts and it is no wonder we will fight for every last drop of oil.
It is time to change. We need your help to pop our emotional virginity. Be careful though because it could get very messy. Our bottled up feelings might flow fast and furious and in typical male fashion, you will be left to clean up the mess that we leave behind. Please be patient with us and nurture us like a newborn, because some of us will be crying like babies. It is not easy to let go of the macho image and we need to be comforted when we are expressing our true feelings. Help us find the balance between the male and female energies within each of us. Be prepared though, because you still might need to stroke our egos, and the harder you rub, the quicker we will want to get to the finish. So, go slow with this love making experience, and trust that we will respond to the softer touch.Bobby of Syncrohearts
Bobby O'Neal helps manage a community forest in Mission, BC. He is also an author and creator of SYNCROHEARTS: The new relationship game you love to play and play to love created for all couples to improve their love for each other and strengthen their relationship. SYNCROHEARTS and Bobby were seen October 15th 2007 on CBC's Dragons Den and were voted by all viewers as the winner of that episode. Bobby has written many articles on self improvement, love and relationships. Visit www.syncrohearts.com for details about this meditation-inspired game and more articles. You may also contact Bobby directly at: info@syncrohearts.com
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